To many, ADHD means you can't pay attention. While that's true, there are other parts to it.
To me, this ADHD Acrostic I came up with illustrates all that I struggle with:
Anger
Distraction
Hyperfocus
Depression
One of the more surprising parts (to me) of that is 'anger' aspect. I never would have associated ADHD with anger, but now I realize that it's a very close connection.
I don't want to get in to details on why it's associated (that's what Google is for); I just wanted to state that there's more to ADHD than the 'Distraction'.
If you struggle with the for symptoms I mentioned, read up on ADHD and see if it sounds like you. Just realizing it helps, and there are some good books
Take care of yourself and don't let official diagnoses get in the way of getting better.